Reality-Based Dating Advice From A Man Who’s Seen (And Coached) It All

by Evan Marc Katz

You think love happens when you least expect it. You tell yourself you’ll make time for a relationship once you find the guy.

Your life is so full that you don’t need a man, yet when you really like a guy, you twist yourself into a pretzel and try to be as accommodating as possible.

You’re still stuck on your ex. Even though he left, nobody else quite measures up.

You think guys have all the power in dating, and that you’re at their mercy when it comes to commitment.

You stay with men who make you feel like crap yet give up on good guys if they make a little mistake.

You tell yourself that the man you’re with should leave you breathless and if you don’t feel intense chemistry right away, you move on.

You’ve been hurt so much in the past that you’re just waiting for the other shoe to drop.

Can you relate to even one of these statements about dating? If so…

Let Me Ask You This: How’s That Working For You?

I’m here to give you a dose of reality.

It’s going to sting, but that’s exactly the point.

Because if you’ve read this far, I know something about you: you want love.

You really, really want it.

And if you don’t have it already, that tells me you’re probably making more than a few very common, very honest mistakes when it comes to dating.

Even ONE of these mistakes can potentially cost you your future husband.

I consider myself a reality-based dating coach, an independent translator of the sexes. If you want someone to tell you men are the entire problem with dating, I’m not your guy.

If you want to know the truth about what a man is thinking, you’re in the right place.

As I see it, my job is simple. Tell the truth without worrying about looking good.

I do so from a place of compassion, truth, and love. I know, at times, my advice may come across as too blunt or too challenging, but I believe you can handle it.

You have to.

If you have cancer and your doctor tells you to go on a strict diet, he’s not being a jerk.

He’s doing his job; he’s telling you what you can do differently to get different results.

This is the same thing.

Once you get over the sting of being told you’re making a mistake (the truth hurts for all of us!), you’ll see that this stuff actually works and you’ll feel more confident than ever in your ability to navigate dating.

You’ll Get Something Out Of My Approach, Wherever You Are

Are you the woman dying to fall in love get married and have a kid?

Are you in your mid 40s/50s, newly divorced, and haven’t dated in forever?

Are you the woman who is too picky because no guy is good enough?

Are you deeply insecure, don’t feel worthy of love, and always afraid of being hurt by a man?

You are not alone, and that’s why I have a job.

Since 2003, I have taught “best practices” in dating—the practical nuts and bolts of how to interact with men in order to wind up in the committed relationship you’re after.

My loyalty is always to the larger, more objective truth. Not just what you want to hear, but what you NEED to hear in order to choose better men, set healthier boundaries, and make smarter relationship choices than you have in the past.

It’s Time To Get Real And Snap Out Of Your Dating Rut

When you are swayed by negative feelings about dating, you ignore this fact: there are multiple men out there who are ready to devote themselves to you forever, but you have no idea who he is or where he is. All you know is this: you’re not going to find and marry him if you keep dating the way you’ve been dating.

For a different outcome, you need a different approach.

I can teach you one based on what is TRUE about most men—NOT what is true about the small sample of men you’ve encountered until now.

A lot of dating advice for women by women focuses almost exclusively the inner work of healing your past in order to open up space for a healthy man in your life.

That’s all well and good, but the problem with this is that it doesn’t tell you what happens next. It just gets you to the starting line. That’s where people like me come in.

And here’s where you’ll really see how my advice is different:

As a man, I point out what you already know but often forget…

Men are 50% of the equation.

That’s right, if you want dating to lead you into the arms of a devoted man, your needs are essential, but it has to be about what he wants and needs, too.

This is the missing link, and it’s what I’ll teach you in Date Without Heartbreak: 10 Incredibly Common Mistakes That Keep Great Women Single.

I focused on mistakes for this eBook because it’s an effective way to quickly show you what you’re doing wrong and why it’s not working—plus turn it around for you with strategies that actually do work with men.

If you don’t have a lot of time to date, I’ll show you how to find your husband in only 20-30 minutes a day. Just imagine that in the future you’ll be filling that time in bed with your man.

I’ll teach you how to get past your fear of rejection and tell you how to weed out the guys who will only break your heart.

You’ll also learn how to finally RELAX in dating, because you’ll have a system for knowing—without a doubt—whether a guy is truly serious about you. Plus, you’ll learn my simple “mirroring” technique to make sure you don’t chase him down while simultaneously letting him know you’re interested.

Above all, my eBook teaches you how to date like a confident woman.

No longer will you feel like you’re at the mercy of men or your past dating experiences.

From now on, you’ll attract a higher caliber of men and and cut loose any man who fails to make you happy.

I specialize in snapping smart women like you out of longtime dating ruts.

You can count on me for this: I’ll always be honest with you, even if you don’t like it, even if it makes me look bad. All because we’re on the same team and we have the same goal in mind: get you the love you’ve always dreamed about.

Warmest wishes and much love,

Your friend,

P.S. Every second you’re with the wrong guy, you’re not looking for the right guy.

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