Here’s the EASY Way to Be Wildly Attractive and Have the Kind of Love and Life You Want

by Marci Shimoff

Do you know someone who just has it “easier” in life?

They don’t seem to concern themselves with the “little things” that can get other people so upset.

They’re positive and optimistic. They trust themselves and they trust that life will turn out okay, no matter what comes up that they have to handle.

They’re the most effective, inspirational leaders. They’re well-liked bosses. They’re the co-workers people love collaborating with.

They’re a joy to be around because they are genuinely curious about others and have a relaxed, fun-loving “vibe”.

They’re surrounded by loyal, supportive friends who love them.

They have wonderful, intimate marriages, or, if they’re single, they have passionate, enviable relationships. People gravitate toward them.

Life just flows for them.

Do you know someone like this?

What’s their secret?

Some People Don’t Have to Work Hard to Get Everything That Makes Them Happy

Do you wish your life was “easy” for you in this way, too?

Who doesn’t!

We yearn for that level of ease in life or to have those kinds of supportive, loyal personal and professional relationships.

Sometimes it happens, and we’re happy, but it never quite lasts for long. We have to keep “working” at it.

Yet some people just naturally attract goodness into their life.

They’re positive and optimistic, so people gravitate toward them.

They have close, supportive friendships and no problem finding love.

They’re enthusiastic and have a “can-do” attitude, and rarely spend time complaining about things they can’t control.

That’s why they’re often approached with promotions and opportunities in their career.

They tend to appreciate the little things that make life wonderful or beautiful, and don’t wallow in worry or negativity. They’re comfortable in their own skin and don’t try to be anyone other than who they really are.

They love themselves and love their life.

They’re just genuinely happy people, regardless of who they are, who they’re with, or what they do. That happiness permeates everything they do, and attracts more of what gives them joy and meaning in life.

Do they have to struggle and work hard at being happy?

Actually, that’s the secret: They don’t.

Because genuinely happy people attract the people and opportunities that give them even MORE reasons to be happy.

It’s an upward cycle:

Happiness attracts good things.

Good things attract more happiness.

And that’s the opposite of what most of us believe about being happy or having an easy life!

Here’s the Secret to Attracting More of What You Want the EASY Way

For most of us, loving ourselves and loving life takes a lot of work. We may have moments or even days when we feel happy, but it’s fleeting. We never quite “arrive”.

We go into debt…

Spend years getting degrees or certifications…

So we can get that “good” job…

That will make us a “great” income…

So we can then live where we want, how we want, attract the partner we want…

But once we get all those things, we still aren’t happy, because to us, happiness is always a “work in progress”. There’s always the next, bigger, better thing to be achieved or acquired (before life can feel EASY).

We work hard on getting / achieving / acquiring the circumstances to BE happy, but what it really takes is learning how to be happy FIRST.

Because happiness is wildly attractive.

It’s attractive to potential partners, to future employers, to bosses, to friends, to family, to everyone who comes in contact with you.

And when people are attracted to you as a person, you attract more of what makes you happy! Opportunities, collaboration, promotions, great love affairs, devoted partners—you name it.

You don’t need to “work” on getting all those things that will make you happy, you just need to get happy FIRST, and the rest will naturally follow.

The only way to be truly happy and love yourself and your life right now, is to focus on being happy FIRST, and you will have everything you need.

You will be naturally attractive to the people in your life, and they will go out of their way to hire you, be your friend, and ask you out.

But what does it take to be truly happy first?

It takes certain skills.

I spent a year researching people like the ones I describe in this article. Happy, lucky, supported people for whom everything seems to come easy.

And what I discovered was that it didn’t take wealth, fame or good looks to be happy. It took a certain set of skills that anyone could learn and apply to their life.

I applied what I learned that year to my own life and it changed everything for me.

These are skills and habits I’ve since taught to thousands of people all over the world through my books, workshops and speeches, and it’s changed their lives, too.

And now I’ve made these secrets available to you through my online video program, 30 Days to a Happier Life.

In it, you’ll learn how to focus on raising your level of happiness FIRST, so that you can attract more of the good in life. Things that really matter. Things that will make you happy every day, not just for a moment.

When you’re a happy person, everything gets better, because the way you look at yourself and your life is different.

You’re upbeat, optimistic, forward-thinking and enthusiastic—naturally.

And people want to be around you, support you, and love you—naturally.

That’s why focusing on happiness FIRST is the easiest way to improve your life.

You can start watching Day 1 of my 30-day program right now, risk-free, and see for yourself how easy it can be:

So many of us have had the wrong idea about what it takes to have the kind of relationships, work, and life we want. We think it’s a lot of work and striving, or we believe that we have to know certain “tips and tricks” on how to be more attractive.

We don’t need all that! All we need to do is learn how to love ourselves and life and be happy first.

The rest will naturally follow.

With love and happiness,