Femininity is under attack.
The idea that in order to succeed in today’s world, we must disregard our feminine side in favor of our masculine energy is what gets us through the day.
It’s what gets us ahead in our careers or businesses. It’s what allows us to stand toe-to-toe with anyone, anytime, and hold our own.
It’s what has pushed women through suffrage and glass ceilings; legislation and single-motherhood.
BUT in embracing our masculine side… we as women have begun to view our femininity as making us “less than,” as less deserving of attention and effort.
We’re encouraged by the world to continue acting in the masculine and the lack of our feminine energy is depriving the world of the essential softness that has built us up through generations.
Because female-ness and femininity is not less than. It’s not weak. It’s not delicate or dainty or feeble.
And it’s certainly not powerless.
Femininity is a quiet strength, a silent confidence.
A power that’s hidden inside you, shown only to those that you deem worthy.
It’s embracing who you are at your very core and cherishing it.
It’s being comfortable in your own skin, remaining aware of your own fortitude, and delighting in how perfectly you’re made.
Don’t Remove The Masculine. Balance It.
Masculine energy is seen as dominant. It’s assertive, action-oriented, and direct. It’s the go-getting energy that’s given women the rights we have over generations.
We all carry masculine energy within us. We all have an ability - to whatever degree - to take masculine, dominating traits and use them in our lives and relationships.
But over the last few generations, women have started to lose the ability to balance their masculine and feminine.
To balance our ambition with softness, to balance our tough skin with empathy. To balance nurturing with protectiveness, thoughtfulness with decisiveness.
Because nobody is all of one thing.
The concept of Yin and Yang demonstrates this. There is a patch of light in the dark, and a patch of dark in the light.
Because we are not designed to be all of one type of energy. We’re not designed to be entirely masculine OR entirely feminine. (Men aren’t, either.)
The reason balance is so important is that it allows us to build our nuanced personalities, our deep connections with one another, and a world that works harmoniously rather than pushing against each other to get ahead.
Life in and of itself requires balance. It requires masculine and feminine.
Just think about it: to create life, nature demands a genetic male and a genetic female - with very few exceptions.
And to be clear - men require feminine energy, too. The ability to nurture and receive; to feel and express. These are essential pieces of men’s puzzles that are missing because the push for masculine is so strong.
So what do we do? How do we get back to who we’re supposed to be and still live in a world that values the masculine?
We are built to access our feminine. We have female bodies.
Our bodies are designed to be receptive - we physically receive our male sexual partners. They’re designed to nurture within our womb. We all have curves and softness - no matter what your physical fitness level, they’re there - and our voices are mostly higher pitched.
But our feminine is not just our physical body.
It’s our energy. Our soul. Our SELVES.
And the key to not only tapping into your femininity but using it to live life to the very fullest…
Is getting intimately in touch with who you are.
Yes, I’m talking about sex.
Building ability and sure-footedness in your feminine sexuality is the master key to unlocking your ability to access every part of your feminine power.
Because at the root of that ability is an unwavering confidence.
Confidence in who you are and what you’re worth. In what you bring to the world and how you add where before there was nothing.
When you’re confident in who you are as a woman, you are then able to endure anything.
It won’t matter what kind of day you’re having, what has happened at work or at home. It won’t matter whether your pants fit the way you’d like or if your hair isn’t falling the way you want.
It won’t matter whether the cashier at the grocery store smiled or not, or if the room mom for your kid sent a passive-aggressive text.
Because you… you are a woman and nothing can move you.
The confidence will practically shine through your pores.
In short: you’ll become a Goddess.
If this sounds a bit far-fetched or unbelievable… I don’t blame you.
We’ve been trained by the world that we can’t get attention without the right makeup and we won’t find love at higher than a size 4.
And we certainly can’t achieve confidence in our truest selves by building our confidence in our sexual selves… right?
Wrong.
You are not only designed for feminine, you are designed to be pleased. Your body is beautifully built to not only give pleasure… but to receive it.
And receive it you can - whether you’ve been fully satisfied before or not, you are capable of immense pleasure that will shake you to your toes and might I say… rock your entire world off its axis.
This pleasure is your birthright.
When you’re able to find the pleasure I’m talking about, you’ll realize that womanness and femininity have benefits that have been hidden away through shame and a culture of “don’t talk about that, it’s not proper.”
Your arousal is not a sin and your sexuality is not a ticket to damnation.
Learning to love sex and achieve peak pleasure does not make you a harlot or an evildoer.
Being confident in your sexuality and your femininity doesn’t make you egotistical or conceited.
Good Sex does not corrupt. Good Sex builds.
Good Sex builds upon strong relationship foundations to go from good to amazing. Good Sex builds upon a sliver of self-esteem to create powerful women who carry their own little secret with them day after day.
The secret that they know what they want - and they know how to get it.
But to find this secret within yourself you have to let go of the masculine, embrace the feminine, and find what both mean to you.
Because feminine doesn’t mean the same thing to everyone. It can’t - we’re not all the same.
And Good Sex looks different to everyone too.
Which is why you have to find it for yourself. You have to become…
A Goddess of Pleasure doesn’t have the inhibitions the world has thrust upon her. She doesn’t participate in the conversation about what’s appropriate for her and what isn’t. She doesn’t let anyone tell her what she can and cannot achieve.
She has released herself from the bounds of her past experiences and she’s able to only look with excitement about what is in store for her in the future. Because she knows that the future will be pleasurable.
There’s no shame or loathing or self-hatred. She is simply radiating joy and confidence, resting in her sexual power.
A power she’s able to rest in because she knows herself in a way that nobody else ever will - or can.
She has full control over her pleasure, what she does with it, and when she reaches for it.
There’s no waiting for a partner who happens to know what she’s doing - she trains and creates that partner.
There isn’t fumbling and wishing, hoping and being left unsatisfied. She is in complete control and what’s more - she knows it.
In my experience, helping women be fully in touch with their sexuality and their unique feminine gift of sexuality IS the single-most transformative action of their lives.
This is the one thing that can change the entirety of your life. The place from which everything else can be touched. The starting block for the rest of your life change.
The simple idea that you know precisely how to make your body feel good - anytime and every time you want - gives you power over the entire world.
Because you’re in tune with who you are at your core.
I’ve taken my almost 40 years of experience helping women understand their own sexual satisfaction - my life’s work traveling the world and working with thousands of women and couples - my deep understanding of behavior, the human body, and ancient principles - and distilled them into one program.
With this program, I’ve created the complete guide to harnessing your own sexuality. I’ve created this program to give you the resource you need not only to understand your body… but to change the way you feel living in it.
To help you access your femininity, once and for all.
The Goddess of Pleasure is a self-study program designed to equip you with the knowledge, tools, and encouragement you need to have a fully satisfying and fulfilling sex life. To help you tap into your own sexuality so you’re free to experience the pleasure your body was designed to achieve.
I’ve thoughtfully put together a series of in-depth videos, intentionally designed to walk you through the process of discovering and exploring your own sexuality.
Videos that distill my years of knowledge, my decades of experience working with thousands of women and couples, my multiple degrees and years of study. Videos that will give you the knowledge and understanding that frankly, you just don’t have time to build on your own.
All with the goal of helping you connect to the feminine power already living within you, build your sexual self-esteem and reap the benefits far outside the bedroom.
With this program, you will:
This is the greatest gift you can give yourself. The gift of transformation into the woman you were always meant to be.
Unlock Your PleasureI’ll show you:
You might have read this entire letter and thought that it sounds great… but you’re not a Goddess of Pleasure.
And I disagree. You’re a woman. You’re designed to be pleased. You’re perfectly and wonderfully capable of freeing yourself from the shackles the world has placed on you.
This program is your chance to make that happen.
All you have to do now is reach out and take it.
Warmly,
P.S. It doesn’t matter what your story or history is. It doesn’t matter what you’ve experienced, learned, been told, or had instilled in you.
Every woman in the world is capable of amazing, wonderful, beautiful things. You included.
YOU are capable of connecting with your truest self. YOU are capable of pleasure and being pleased. YOU are capable of the kind of confidence that stands you taller, gives you resilience, and helps you see the world through fresh eyes every single day.
This program is the first step to making that happen. This program is the first step to reconnecting with yourself.
Let’s turn you into the Goddess you already are… even if you don’t know it yet.
Find Your Inner Goddess