“I want to satisfy her… but I don’t know how and she isn’t telling me.”
“I try to make sure she enjoys sex as much as I do, but I know I’m not getting it right.”
“I feel like less of a man because I can’t make her happy in bed.”
“I feel guilty if she doesn’t finish and I do.”
“All I want to do is make her happy and I don’t know how to do it.”
Believe it or not… THIS is what men believe about sex. More specifically, this is what your partner believes about sex WITH YOU.
This is what your partner wants from you in the bedroom.
Not the 217 hottest new sex positions, or the oral sex technique guaranteed to blow his mind.
Your partner, your husband, your boyfriend, your fiance…
He wants you to be happy. He wants you to be fulfilled in your sex life. He wants to participate in your pleasure.
And adding to your sex life in this way is the single-greatest gift you can give to him.
Why?
It makes him feel desirable. It makes him feel like a man. It makes him feel like he is the king of the world, able to conquer entire cities with nothing but his prowess after dark.
When a man knows that the woman he loves feels good at his (sometimes literally) hands…
There’s simply no stopping him.
His mood is better, his anxiety is lower, and he is more secure in his place in your relationship.
(Yes, I said it: When he knows that he can help you feel good, he feels safer in his entire relationship with you.)
In short: Good sex with your partner makes his whole world better. And you get the benefit of orgasms and all the other good stuff that comes from being completely and wholly satisfied. That’s what I call a win-win.
But What If You Don’t Know How To Experience Pleasure During Sex?
What if you feel like you can’t orgasm, or can’t orgasm quickly enough?
What if you’re not sure what he can do to make it feel better for you?
What if you don’t think it’ll happen anyway, so you don’t even bother trying?
You give up on pleasure… and while you think that’s selfless so that he can feel good…
The reality is that your partner WANTS you to be pleased. He wants you to achieve orgasm.
He sees your pleasure as a gift. One that you deny him and instead simply go along with whatever makes him feel good.
But when YOU feel good, HE feels good.
And that has long-reaching effects on your entire relationship with him.
It’s a myth that men only want sex and women only want emotion… but one that affects all of us and our interactions every single day.
But it affects us in even deeper ways than we realize…
Because we, as women, are culturally conditioned to put our needs LAST - and this extends into the bedroom.
We focus on HIS pleasure before our own. We accept that it might not feel as great as we’d like it to or we convince ourselves that the quality of our sex life doesn’t matter as much as we think it does.
But - and this is the part so many women miss - the amount of pleasure and satisfaction we have in our sex lives doesn’t just matter to US. It also matters to our partner.
What’s more - it matters to the relationship we have WITH our partner.
When you are able to truly enjoy sex with your partner, you experience a deeper emotional bonding. But when you’re not… it creates a constantly growing cycle of sexual dissatisfaction and a lack of sexual desire.
Here’s what I mean: If you don’t enjoy sex as much as you could or should, you’re going to desire it less. You’re going to desire HIM less.
And considering that 73% of men state a deep need to feel desired by their partner…
That’s going to have a negative effect on how you interact with and react to each other.
This will continue and grow - you’re not desiring sex because it just doesn’t satisfy you and he continues to feel undesirable which goes against what he REALLY wants.
Is that to say that ALL relationships are doomed to spiral if the sex isn’t off-the-walls amazing every single time? Of course not.
But building intimacy and desire between your long-term partner and yourself is NEVER a bad thing.
A number of years ago I was speaking at a conference, and one of the male attendees stopped me after my presentation. He told me that his wife could only achieve sexual pleasure on her own, with a pillow.
And I’ll never forget his face when he told me that “I desperately wish I could be her pillow.”
This man loved his wife so much that he wanted to be the one to bring her pleasure. He wanted to make her feel good and comfortable and cared for.
He wanted to represent that love - the kind of love that’s intangible - in the only physical way he could. By satisfying her sexually.
They say that sex is an expression of love - and in healthy relationships, that’s absolutely what it is.
The science backs this up. When you reach orgasm, your brain releases oxytocin - which increases trust, empathy, positive memories, and bonding.
Simply put: good sex in your relationship makes your relationship BETTER.
Imagine this scenario:
It’s the middle of the week, and you’re already exhausted. You’ve got a lot going on at work, and your family is especially demanding. Perhaps the holidays are coming up and you’re busy trying to prepare to put the magic into it for everyone else… but you’re certainly not feeling it.
You’re already stressing out about the evening ahead of you, knowing that it’s going to be a flurry of after-school activities, homework, and getting dinner on the table.
And then your boss calls you into a meeting to have “a conversation” about a mistake your team made in your last project.
You’re about at the end of your rope, overwhelmed by life.
And your phone lights up with a text from your husband. He sent you a quick note to tell you how much he enjoyed “that thing” you guys did last night.
Now… what does that do to your day? To your mood? To your overall attitude about the evening ahead of you?
Are you still dreading going home? Or are you now a little excited about seeing your husband and giving him a big hug while you talk about your day… and perhaps, letting him support you emotionally.
You’re able to do this because of the intimacy that you two have built.
And studies show that sexual desire one day will spill over into the following day.
Desire creates desire. Good sex creates intimacy and heightens desire for both you and your partner.
And the root of good sex is YOUR enjoyment.
When you are sexually satisfied, you’re more likely to desire sex. And a recent study has shown that a greater desire for sex with your partner directly improves your sexual satisfaction.
So how do you have a sex life that leaves you satisfied and wanting more?
If you want to have good sex - the kind of sex that leaves you smiling the next day, ready to face whatever the world has to throw at you…
You have to not only know what feels good to you, but work WITH your husband to help him satisfy you.
And there are a thousand reasons that you might not be doing this now.
You might not have the experience or knowledge to intuitively understand what will feel good for your body.
You might be struggling with mental or emotional blocks surrounding sex in the first place.
You might lack the confidence to have sexual conversations with him, or to communicate what feels good.
You have held onto beliefs about yourself, your sexuality, and sex in general that are keeping you from letting go and enjoying yourself in the moment…
Which means you never unlock the pleasure that’s yours for the taking.
And unless you overcome these obstacles to good, great, amazing, relationship-confirming sex…
You’re withholding something he desperately wants from you. Your own pleasure.
I’ve heard countless stories in my decades of traveling the world and helping women and couples overcome sexual difficulties.
I’ve helped women understand their anatomy. I’ve given couples the tools to communicate with confidence. I’ve spoken about mental and emotional blocks to good sex and how to rise above and beyond them.
It’s this knowledge that I want to get into the hands of every single woman in the world - because every woman (including you) deserves to be sexually satisfied. Whatever that means for you.
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Warmly,
P.S. No matter what’s keeping you from being fully satisfied with your sex life, it’s entirely overcomeable.
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