Feeling Stuck In Life or Love and Don’t Know What To Do? Here’s the Hidden Reason Why

by Margaret Paul

Is there an old issue related to your relationship, career, purpose or health that just isn’t getting better, and with which you can’t seem to make any headway?

You keep going around in circles…

Pondering the same problems…

Recycling the same dead-end ideas…

Experiencing the same painful feelings….

And growing increasingly frustrated that you can’t seem to make any forward progress toward a solution?

When you look back at your life in the last several years or longer—you are astounded that you’ve wasted so much time and energy trying to figure out this problem.

You want to be happier and closer in your relationship, but your partner makes it nearly impossible.

You imagine changing jobs or starting a new career or business, but taking that risk freaks you out.

You want to feel or look better in your body but nothing you do seems to make much difference.

You want to feel a sense of aliveness and purpose, but nothing you imagine doing excites or inspires you.

All these years later, all these thoughts later, you aren’t any closer to “the answer”.

The only thing you know for sure, is that you’re stuck.

The Part of You That Enabled You to Survive Earlier In Life Is Keeping You From Experiencing Joy and Inner Peace NOW

You’re a smart person. Why can’t you figure out a solution to your problems?

It’s as if the more you seek answers, the less you’re even sure you’re asking the right questions.

Whenever you think you’re getting close to knowing how to break free of your rut or break through to greater insight and understanding, you shrink again, telling yourself that “you can’t” or that “it’s hopeless” or that “nothing will ever get better”.

The reason you can’t seem to find a resolution and experience inner peace about this issue is because you’re listening to your WOUNDED SELF.

When you were a very young child, your wounded self was necessary for your survival. It made sure you did what you had to do (cry, whine, act out, throw a tantrum, comply) in order to survive— physically, mentally and emotionally.

Your wounded self is that part of your psyche that holds all the painful memories, false beliefs, and toxic emotions that developed in childhood. It was a necessary part of your development, but now, it is a barrier to being present and experiencing your inner wisdom and higher guidance.

Why? Because your wounded self will NEVER let you relax or be at peace with your life, because your wounded self has an agenda: to get love and avoid pain by almost any means.

To accomplish this agenda, your wounded self tells you that:

• You are fundamentally alone.
• You are fundamentally flawed, nor not good enough.
• You can think and rationalize your way to happiness and inner peace.
• You have to control others in order to avoid pain and get love.
• Others are responsible for your happiness and well-being.
• You are not responsible for your painful feelings.

Therefore, as long as you listen and believe the messages of the wounded self, you remain stuck.

You’re Stuck Because the Wounded Self Doesn’t Want to Relinquish Control

In order to get out of a rut, get unstuck, and begin to make progress toward real and lasting changes in your life, you need to stop listening to the voice of the wounded self and instead open up to hearing the voice of your higher guidance.

Your higher guidance is your innate source of wisdom and intelligence. You can choose to call it God, or Spirit, or your higher power. It is already within you and all around you, but the reason you can’t access this innate source of wisdom is because the wounded self doesn’t want to relinquish control.

It uses FEAR to keep you stuck in whatever situation isn’t serving your higher purpose.

It keeps you stuck in a bad relationship or marriage because you’re afraid of being alone.

It keeps you stuck in a job that’s stressing you out and ruining your health because you’re afraid of losing your livelihood and income.

It keeps you stuck in destructive habits and numbing addictions because you’re afraid of feeling your painful feelings.

It keeps you stuck in people-pleasing, draining relationships with friends and family because you’re afraid you won’t be liked.

Your wounded self is keeping you stuck because you’re living your life from a space of programmed false beliefs that result in paralyzing, debilitating fear.

When you learn HOW to move beyond the wounded self and toward your higher guidance, you can finally get unstuck and start living from a space of love.

How to Stop Listening to the Voice of the Wounded Self, Get Unstuck, And Experience True Joy and Freedom

Learning how to live from a space of LOVE and not fear is one of the most transformative things you can ever do in your life.

When you stop listening to your wounded self and begin to listen to your Higher Guidance, you’ll begin to trust your feelings as opposed to being debilitated by them.

You’ll know what to do to release fear, anxiety, and worry.

You’ll effortlessly manifest the life of your dreams because you’ll have direct access to the intelligence and wisdom of the Universe.

You’ll be able to identify the actions and decisions that are in your highest good, so you can relax knowing that even if you have to make a difficult choice or take an uncomfortable action—it’s ultimately the right thing to do.

And what all of that means is that you’ll finally stop ruminating about your problems and issues, take the actions you’ll know are loving and best for you, and finally get unstuck.

I know that this isn’t easy as long as you’re using the same thoughts and mental processes you’ve used in the past (that’s why you’ve been stuck!)

That’s why I developed my program, Unlocking Your Inner Wisdom—to show you how to stop listening to the voice of the wounded self and connect with your Higher Guidance in order to live a life of joy, freedom and inner peace.

Unlocking Your Inner Wisdom is a 30-day video program, that will show you, step-by-step and day-by-day, what rituals and lifestyle choices will raise your “frequency” and make it EASY to hear the voice of your Higher Guidance or inner wisdom.

As you take the simple action steps I recommend daily, the answers you’ve been seeking will become clear. You’ll suddenly “get” what you need to do or let go of in order to experience fulfillment, love, happiness—all those feelings you knew were possible “if only” you could get unstuck.

It’ll be such a relief to you, to gain intimate access to your Higher Guidance and inner wisdom, anywhere and anytime you need it.

You’ll no longer feel alone.

You’ll stop blaming or trying to control others because you’ll have complete responsibility and authority over your own feelings and life.

You’ll trust yourself and the decisions you make.

You’ll start to manifest the life and relationships you’ve always wanted.

There’s no need for you to spend another day, another year feeling stuck and mulling the same, tired thoughts about how you wish life “could” be, if only…

It’s time to harness your innate wisdom and bring everything you’ve ever wanted into fruition, starting today.

Blessings,